Listening to the advice of others when it comes to your relationship instead of talking to your significant other is like having your friend take the medicine to make your Flu go away. Talk to your spouse (boyfriend/girlfriend) when there is an issue instead of listening to the advice of 3rd parties who don’t know the entire story or have your best interest at heart. Listening to the advice of others will not only cloud your judgement and delay a meaningful resolution, it may also cause a bigger problem between you two. To keep it short and the point, if they are not sleeping in your bed, keep them out of your relationship decisions!!!